1) upon seeing in a dream or thinking about her and her husband and feeling aroused, Does she have to take a ghusl? 2) how can she exactly differentiate between mani and madhi? جزاكم الله
Assalam u Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah,
A woman can have a wet dream too. If a man or woman experience a wet dream then they will have to perform Ghusl (complete bath).
Although it is clear and easier for a man to notice when he has a wet dream, nonetheless a woman can realize as well the difference between having just a sexual arousal and full discharge/ orgasm.
And Allah knows best.
Mufti Ikram ul Haq
Fatwa Center of America