I am 27 yrs old gal,mother of 4 n been married since 7 yrs.
My hubby is in a haram afair since 4 yrs n since den we r not in physical relations.
I want to take a divorce.but im not rich n my family is not going to suport me.
Ill need another man to suport me n my kids after i get divorce.
My question is if i talk to someone namehram i want to get maried to after geting divorce,is it haram??
I know talking to na mehram is haram but before mariage it is alowed dat da bride n groom can meet,so in my case being in nikjah n hefore divorce can i talk to someone who is willing to marry me n accept my kids after divorce??
I understand that you are in a difficult situation.
However, it is not permissible for you to seek marriage with another man unless your divorce with your current husband is final. Once your divorce is final with your current husband and you have completed your Iddah then you may talk to another man who is seriously interested in marrying you.
I pray that Allah makes this transition easy for you. Aameen
And Allah knows best.
Mufti Ikram ul Haq
Fatwa Center of America