In one of your answers you have said that there is no harm in celebrating birthdays, but my question is that we are not suppose to copy the non muslims ,it's their way (tradition)???plz let me know...
Assalam u Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah
The prohibition of following the ways of non-Muslims (Kuffar) only applies to their practices that are considered specifically part of the teachings of another religion. If something is done as a custom of culture, region or lifestyle that is not prohibited in Islam then it would not fall under the prohibition of following the ways of non-Muslims (Kuffar). For example, celebrating Christmas will not be allowed because it is a religious celebration of Christians but celebrating independence day or memorial day etc... will not be prohibited because these days are not celebrated as part of a religious tradition. Likewise, birthday is not a celebration that is observed as a religious custom. Rather it is observed as a casual event on someone's birthday.
And Allah knows best.
Mufti Ikram ul Haq
Fatwa Center of America